▶ Watch + listen · 36 minPamela Topjian
I Wasn't Brave. I Was Just Numb.
At 50, exhausted from two abusive marriages and a career spent taking care of everyone but herself, Pamela Topjian sold almost everything she owned, bought a one-way bus ticket, and left home not knowing where she'd land. Ten years later, she's a published author, a podcast host, and living what she calls the first equal, respectful marriage of her life.
Sep 23, 2026
